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go shopping with me!

17/10/2021

I know it’s been a while since I posted and a lot has changed since my last post. For instance, I moved again this time to NYC for graduate school and I started a furniture company fern (more about this later). Am I currently drowning in work as I write this post? Yes. Am I probably a little burned out? Definitely, but retail therapy is great, and online window shopping is all I can actually do right now. I would feel too guilty physically going shopping right now given the amount of work I need to finish, so I’m doing the next best thing as a little break from actively designing next another space or object by online window shopping! Check out what I’m currently loving in terms of clothes.

Gold hand beaded sequin mini cocktail dress by Onalaja

Talitha Beaded Sequin Mini Dress (Onalaja)

I fell in love with this dress the moment I saw it on the folklore’s website. It’s gorgeous and even though I currently have no place to wear it to I would 100% buy this and just wear it whenever I felt like it. It is also the perfect New Year’s party dress. This is dress would be a completely irresponsible purchase but you know what sometimes it is okay to be irresponsible.

Chloe Bralette

Chloe Bralette (Elexiay)

I love this concept, don’t fully love the color, so if I were to order this I would probably get a custom color (and it’s also part of the reason I haven’t ordered it). I love that you can order custom colorways from Elexiay, I’ve really fallen in love with the custom option because it allows me to truly craft and curate a closet of clothes I love. I’m currently considering getting this in a light blue or even a strong blue but I also have a cobalt blue sweater that I personally find a hard time styling so I haven’t settled on a color yet. A soft pink similar to the color of things dyed with avocado pits is also an option.

Lara Black Lux Sequins Knitted Bra (Maison Cleo)

I own a vintage mustard blazer (don’t really remember if I thrifted it or stole it from my mom) that’s one of my favorite pieces. It has a tux feel to it thanks to the pleated black collar and buttons so it’s a little more “masculine” so I like trying to balance with more “feminine” pieces and I think this with a high-waisted black pencil skirt (or even a mini if I’m feeling scandalous) would be super cute. I really just want more things to wear with the blazer since I really love it.

Oana Pink Thick Striped Woold Skirt (Maison Cleo)

I used to own a bright pink skirt like this but I didn’t really love the cut. I bought it when I went on a weird clothing binge and bought a ton of stuff I regret buying. I like this one because it’s wool, it has this nice slit, and 2 pockets, plus this color is very bright so it would color block well. Sadly it is currently sold out but if I find this, I’m definitely buying it.

Maya in Tobacco Braid (Lutz Morris)

Do I love this bag because it matches a pair of my shoes? Yes. Do I love both of these items because of the texture? Yes. There are about 5 different bags by the German brand Lutz Morris that I want (including a custom one that I haven’t designed). I’m in dire need of a new everyday bag because I’ve literally been carrying the same vintage Dooney & Bourke since high school and I want something more adult sophisticated. I really want a simple bag similar to this one in terms of shape preferably vintage but painted by an artist, but I haven’t worked out all the details on this creation.

That’s it! I actually found this really fun, so I’ll probably do it again. I don’t actually purchase things that often because I’m hyper selective, but I do enjoy a good scroll or stroll through different shops and discovering new designers. I really love supporting smaller more independent designers so if there’s someone I should know tag them in the comments or send them to me on Instagram!

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eating invasives (Green Crab Dumpling Recipe)

26/06/2021

If you follow me on Instagram, you probably remember when I had a bunch of crabs in the kitchen. Well I’m finally going to explain what that was all about…

green crabs in a box
Some of my crabs being boxed up


I’m not one to back down from a challenge especially when it’s in the kitchen and I love doing sustainable things, enter the green crabs. Green crabs are invasive in the US. This is bad because they have no natural predators, destroy the habitat, and eat everything they can. Eating invasives is very good for the environment because it protects endemic and native critters. You can’t over eat them. Green crabs are mostly on the East and West coasts, so if you live on one of these coasts it’s definitely a food you should try. I got my green crabs for free via the Shuck at Home Program from Green Crab Org (which if you’re in Boston I would recommend participating!). I signed up for ~5 pounds of crabs but I think I ended up with double that, which let me tell you is a lot of crabs. I thought about what I wanted to cook with what I thought was going to 5lb of crabs for like a week and finally settled on dumplings. I love dumplings, so much. I’ve only made dumplings one other time in my life and they were terrible, completely inedible. I learned to make dumplings from watching one of my fellow scoopies. I understood the process so much better after that even though I wouldn’t end up making dumplings for another 2 years. I am in no way an expert dumpling maker as when I made these it was my second time ever making them. This was a fun and interesting way for me to make a large batch of snack food and try my hand at dumpling making again (aka redeem myself in my eyes).

my box of green crabs
my box of green crabs in the sink being cleaned


There were many challenges to recipe and honestly I don’t know if this is the best recipe for these crabs but it worked after trail and error. I literally had no clue what I was doing and research extensively while cooking because these were not working. This is probably the most time intensive recipe I will ever share. I highly recommend putting on a long series or a few movies because you will be in the kitchen for a while. The upside? You’ll have like over 100 dumplings and you’ll have the richest crab stock to use for so many dishes, in short you’ll eat for weeks maybe even months! I highly recommend clearing some freezer space because you will not use everything the day you make them. Oh and eat before you start because it’s a lot of work. Honestly I would have loved some soft shell green crabs because then I could have just fried them and been done but that’s not this. (side note: if you love blue crabs I would really recommend eating green crabs instead and asking for those where ever you buy blue crabs because blue crabs are endangered (i.e. don’t eat them!) and the preferred food source of whooping cranes, eat green crabs instead to help the environment).


This is a time intensive recipe, I’m trying to figure out some other less intense recipes but I promise you this is well worth it. This is one of those things that’s fun to do with friends or family or even alone. You could also use this technique to make a stuffed pasta like ravioli

Green Crab Dumpling Recipe
Things you’ll need to cook the crabs:

  • The largest pot you have (I didn’t have a big pot when I made these so I used 3 different pots that were approx. 8 quarts each. I personally I would use a 20 quart pot or larger)
  • Seasoning (you can use old bay or a mixture of bay leaves, oregano, dried chilis, and peppercorns//use whatever seasoning you want the dumplings don’t really need the broth, you can use the stock to make soup, polenta, gumbo, or pasta anything really)
  • Vinegar (I put like a quarter cup in each pot of water (so a quarter cup per 8 quarts), this helps soften the shell which trust me you want to do)
  • a sieve
  • a large bowl
  • a funnel
  • a rubber spatula
  • A medium sized bowl
  • a few quart containers
  • TONGS- these need to be sturdy
  • A mallet or jar
  • A drain plug strainer
  • Freezer space, large enough and flat enough to keep store your baking sheet or cutting board

Things you’ll need to make the dumplings:

  • fresh ginger ( I used about a quarter inch grated but you can use more or less depending on taste)
  • low sodium soy sauce (about a quarter cup)
  • Chinese 5 spice (optional)
  • cabbage 1 small head
  • carrots 3
  • onions 1 (medium sized)
  • garlic 1-3 cloves
  • optional: chili paste or chili flakes
  • dumpling wrappers
  • a large bowl
  • Cutting board + knife
  • toasted sesame oil
  • Large pan
  • a small spoon
  • large freezer bag

Obviously you’ll need the green crabs

This recipe has multiple parts, I recommend reading this through before attempting to cook anything, first we’ll start with cooking the crabs because they need to cool a little before you can handle them.

This was my set up. I would not recommend doing 3 smaller pots.
  1. Fill your pot(s) with water (if you’re in an older building I recommend using cold water to minimize exposure to lead) about 60-75% of the size of the pot, add your seasoning to the pot, and bring it to a vigorous boil.

While you’re waiting for your water to boil, we’re going to clean the crabs and prep the stuff for the dumplings.

  1. The crabs are living creatures and they do not want to be killed but this a mercy killing. They may try to pinch you with their claws which is why you have tongs.
    1. First plug your sink with a strainer, this is every important! You don’t want the crabs to escape because they’re bad for the environment. One of mine did and I had to turn on the garbage disposal to ensure it didn’t escape alive😞
    2. Dump the crabs in the sink and run cool water over the crabs to clean them for approximately 5 minutes. You want all debris removed from the crabs.
    3. Rinse the container the crabs came in and set aside
    4. Using the tongs add the crabs back into the container they came in, and keep the lid on them
  2. Slice your onion and carrots into thin slivers. Cut off the tops and ends of each veggie, then cut them in half and slice into the slivers. Mince your garlic. Set aside.
  3. In a large skillet, add about 1 tablespoon of sesame oil (and 2 of avocado oil) and heat on medium to low heat. While the pan is heating return to the crabs.

Cooking the crabs

cooked crabs
the crabs will be red when cooked
  1. Once the water is boiling vigorously dump the crabs in the pot(s). If you are using multiple pots add enough crabs to raise the water lever but not so much that the water overflows.
  2. The crabs are cooked once they change colors and stop moving (the color change is the biggest difference and the easiest indicator). This will take about 10 minutes depending on the size of the pot and the amount of crabs.
  3. Once the crabs are cooked, turn off the heat and let cool in the pot, while you return to the dumpling filling.

Cooking the dumpling filling

  1. While the crabs are cooking return to the pan. Once it is warm add onions, carrots, chili flakes, ginger, Chinese 5 spice, and garlic and sauté. If using chili paste, mix chili paste with soy sauce and set aside.
  2. Once onions are nearly translucent, add cabbage to pan and mix well. Add your soy sauce (mixture) and cook down the cabbage until it is no longer raw and fully cooked, about 10-15 minutes. Stir occasionally. Once cooked, turn off heat and remove pan. Allow to cool while you work on the crabs.

Collecting the meat

Crab meat in a bowl with a spoon.
So technically you will have a mixture of crab meat and roe. This is fine
  1. Save the broth you will need it to obtain the crab meat. Using the tongs, remove the crabs from the pot into a clean container(s) or baking sheet(s). Let cool enough so that you can handle them without the tongs.
  2. (This a Vietnamese method and it worked pretty well.) In the sink, place your large, and place the sieve over the bowl and add 5-7 crabs to strainer and mash! You want to crush the crabs very well into coarse chunks.
  3. Grab one of your quart containers and scoop the broth/boiled water out and pour it over the crushed crabs. Repeat this a few times, I did it about 5 times per batch (essentially until the liquid no longer flowed through the strainer) and reused the liquid. Remove crab shells from strainer and use the spatula or spoon to scoop out the meat which is all that should be left behind and place it into a separate clean bowl. You will repeat this process until you have done this with all of the crabs.
  4. Once you have finished the crabs add the meat to the cabbage mixture and mix thoroughly. Now we make dumplings! First, however, clean up and maybe take a little breather.
  5. At this point, you can discard all your crab shells either in your compost bin or in the trash. Decant your broth into containers to cool fully, leave space because this is water-based so it will expand once frozen, and freeze once cool (you want the liquid to cool in about 30-60 minutes before freezing). Put your dishes in the dishwasher or hand wash and set aside. You will need a small bowl or cup of water, cutting board, and baking sheet lined with parchment (the parchment is optional). Everything else can be put away.

Making the dumplings

dumpling on a baking sheet
I actually use these silicone mats instead of parchment. I got them from target and I love them.
  1. On a clean cutting board or flat surface place your dumpling wrapper. Scoop about a half tablespoon of the crab and cabbage mixture onto the center of the dumpling wrapper. Wet your finger and run it around the circumference/perimeter of the wrapper and fold, press the edges down to ensure it is sealed. Pick up the dumpling and pinch the edges (please watch a video on how to do this). I will be honest my first few were not good but you will end up making around 100 dumplings so you will develop the skill throughout this process. I am much better at this now. Place the dumpling on the baking sheet lined with parchment Repeat this process until you fill the baking sheet with rows of dumplings leaving about a half-inch of space between them.
  2. Place the baking sheet in the freezer for about 15-20 minutes. You are flash freezing the dumplings so you can eat them later. You want the outside of the dumpling to cold and slightly frozen. Once they have reached this state you can store them in a container or large freezer bag in your freezer.
  3. Repeat this process until all of the dumplings are frozen. If you want to cook some, I recommend cooking the amount you want right after you fold them.

Cooking the dumplings

  1. In a pan, heat about a tablespoon or 2 of sesame oil over medium heat.
  2. Once hot add the dumplings, either fresh or frozen, flat side down and cook until the bottom is browned a little (about 2 minutes if fresh, about 4-5 if frozen).
  3. Add a scant quarter cup of water to the pan and cover. The dumplings will now steam and will be ready once all of the water has evaporated.
  4. Serve immediately with soy sauce or a dumpling sauce (I would like to recommend the Zhong sauce by fly by jing but mine was stolen so I never got to try it)

That’s it! Normally I don’t make recipes this involved but I wanted something fun to try and it was literally the middle of the pandemic so I had a bunch of free time.

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invest with me intro

21/06/2021

I’ve mentioned before that I really got into investing last year.  While, I did get into  investing in general I specifically really dived into angel investing/investing in startups. I think this was a natural step as I’ve worked with entrepreneurs a lot,  I like trying things, one of my close friends is in Venture Capital (VC), and I’ve personally seen what angel investing/VC can do.  I actually wanted to start this series with this post but when I came up with the idea for the series the investment I wanted to focus on was closing on the first of June. I had already written that post up and hadn’t yet written this intro so when they extended their raise it was too late for me to change my order.


Anyways, why I invest. It’s fun and exciting, anything can happen so it’s a bit risky (big risk = big reward). I also realize that investing allows you to shape society in a way that you can’t through pure philanthropy. This really gets into my thesis for investing. An investment thesis, basically states what you invest in and why. So it could be industry specific or in companies of a certain size or companies that have a certain valuation. You write your own thesis and there is essentially no right or wrong way to do it. This document is used to guide you, you don’t have to share it. It’s your beacon to remind you on how you want to shape your portfolio/where you want to invest your money. I actually use my thesis for investing in both startups and in the stock market.  For those that know me, my thesis will not be surprising. I primarily invest in startups focused on sustainability, automation, and food that are founded by BI(P/W)OC.
I personally have a more complex and broad definition of sustainability so this allows me to be a bit more flexible in my thesis. My background is in sustainability and I’ve been in this field for a while so I have bit of insight into it and am therefore more comfortable investing my money into startups in this field. I also want there their to be more companies that help us live more sustainably. I believe deeply in automation to free humanity from unnecessary work. So in short I invest in companies that are helping to build the world I want to live in.


I rarely stray from this thesis but occasionally I do for the right fintech (financial technology), edtech (educational technology), or wellness/health startup. The person who actually spurred me to start this series has a very different thesis than mine. They are focused on companies that have a certain valuation (essentially what the company is worth//there are a million ways to calculate this but it’s normally some multiple of their projected revenue).  Some people do a combination of this, so they may only invest in financial technology companies with valuations between $10-20 million. Some people will invest in companies that are only early stage and raising their Seed or pre-seed round. Financing rounds are generally ordered like this pre-seed, seed, series A, B, C, D, (and sometimes) E. These funding amounts will all vary by company and there is very little consistency between the round amount and the name. The round name give you a little idea of where the company is at in it’s life.


By now you’re probably wondering what I’m invested in. I’m only sharing the companies I’m invested in outside of Roth IRA, which if you haven’t set one up, please please please do! I worked with a licensed financial planner, who is absolutely brilliant, and I am happy to connect you with her just DM me on Instagram and I will connect you. She is sooo knowledgeable, her recommendations are fantastic! (I’m really happy because my IRA is up 36%). So my actual portfolio companies in alphabetical order are:

  • Bloomi
  • CodeCombat
  • Delee
  • Deuce Drone
  • Dollaride
  • ecotext
  • it’s by u
  • Juna (which I love so much)
  • Miso Robotics
  • Moku Foods (also some really bomb mushroom jerky)
  • NowRx (lowkey regret doing this investment)
  • R3 Printing (lowkey regret doing this investment)
  • Renewal Foods
  • Sienna Sauce
  • Talla ai
  • Terracycle
  • TrustStamp (this company actually went public last year)
  • Winc

I really get into things sometimes and that’s what happened last year because except for like 3 of these companies I invested in all of them in 2020. I really went super overboard, it’s actually a little embarrassing and I regret some of these investments just slightly.  I toned down dramatically what and how much I’m investing and I’m trying very hard to stick to my thesis. I’ll admit I didn’t really know what I was doing when I started and I didn’t have a thesis which is why some investments don’t actually align with my thesis, but a year into this I’ve learned a ton and feel much more confident about moving forward.

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