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11/01/2025

I planned to share this post a few weeks ago but then I didn’t feel like writing it. Then I lost track of time sooooo here we go. I know a few people (myself included) are attempting no/(s)low buys this year. I said I would do that after an absurdly expensive fashion year, where I went a little overboard. I quickly failed at that mostly because I did not actually want to do it. Instead I have a new method that’s healthier than an all or nothing approach because even though I did overspend last year I do not have many clothes and I am still trying to rebuild my wardrobe after years of not buying anything. I also know that I am capable of doing a no buy because I did them before they were really a thing and went on a no-buy for years for environmental reasons. Finally, even though I did go overboard in comparison to my previous years I not spending, I got some absurdly good deals and this is how I did it. This will probably be one of my most unglamorous posts but no matter your budget these tips are helpful!

  1. look everywhere! you never know where you will find things. i am truthfully embarrassed to admit this but im like fifty buy/sell/trade groups for various brands on facebook. sometimes you luck on there and there are groups for nearly everything. it’s as simple as searching [brand/designer] bst/buy. Normally not a lot of trading happens in these groups and I would recommend using paypal business for any transactions to protect your purchase.
  2. second-hand sites (ebay/poshmark/vestiaire collective/thredup/ mercari/vinted/therealreal). i love buying secondhand for a lot of reasons. i enjoy saving money but also seeing first hand how much textile waste the West produces keeps me up at night, it’s so much and so sad. so i will always buy second hand and always try selling something before donating it for this very reason. is it a little more inconvenient? yeah but somethings gotta give and i’d it rather be me than the earth. i love all of these sites because you can really luck out either in terms of finding exactly what you’re looking for at a lower price or finding something you wouldn’t have noticed before. the big downside to searching on these sites is people can be lazy with listing things so you will have to hunt oooor you can use my final big tip which is the one i use the most now to save time.
  3. google (and bing) reverse image search (google calls this google lens). this is one of the best tools for second hand shopping or finding some long lost item. i was able to find the louboutins i wanted for less simply by using this lens. i found the dress i wanted for years with lens (granted it was on the realreal but it didn’t show up immediately in my saved search). i found some shoes i wanted for a while today with lens. i hate sharing this because I want to gatekeep but i also believe if it is meant for me it will be. i recommend clarifying the search a bit by adding a keyword like a brand to really weed out unnecessary images. occasionally i will use bing too because bing is actually better at finding the source of an image (i.e. you found something on pinterest and want to find the first place this image popped up, you might need to use bing).
  4. okay i lied my final tip is beni, which a chrome plugin that will essentially do the google search for you and automatically find second options of most of the thing you shop for clothing-wise. it’s great and honestly i forget about it a lot of the time until it pops up and then i remember to use it. highly recommend it because it will find you the things you’re looking for in your size and you can save pieces to. so say it’s not currently on a second-hand site it will let you know when one becomes available so you can purchase it.

i will get into this more in the next post but i check every single day for certain things in order to find them because if there is one thing i’ve learned you can buy pretty much anything second hand but you might only get one chance to get it depending on the item.

fashion, money

birthday fantasy wishlist

03/01/2025

Sooo I had actually meant to post this for Christmas/holiday season and I completely forgot, luckily my birthday is shortly after the holiday season. I am staunchly a believer that gifts should either be extremely over the top, something the receiver would not buy for themselves because it is too decadant to justify buying (you can tell I loved the fantasy lookbook from Neimans each year); oooor gifts should be very practical something that would improve the receiver’s life and make it easier. This could be something like a bill paid or money, a reusable lint roller (or anything in a fabric care kit if they’ve expressed they want to take better care of their clothes), or cookbook tailored to their interests. Essentially glamorous or extremely glamorous. The only time you should buy something random is if you don’t really know the person, that’s when the thought counts because if you buy something for someone you have a close relationship with and you’re unsure if they will like it or they’ve told explicity things they want and you stray from that list to get something you think they will like, it is no longer the thought that counts because you didn’t think. Gift giving is very easy, you just have to listen. I have more thoughts on gifts but this is the gist. Let’s get into my fantasy list, which is really an aliquot of a larger list.

Now that I’m sitting here though I realize I really forgot one important item from this list sooo I’m just going drop a photo of it at the end.

  1. Diptyque Sapins. This is my favorite candle from diptyque, it’s pine scented and I have a tiny baby one and I want a bigger one. I want the massive big boy $500 roses one and while these candles are quality, I feel guilty buying one because you are literally burning money. Fancy candles are generally a great gift because you are literally burning money and it’s always better to burn someone else’s rather than your own.
  2. Erede Billow Collar. I love the collar lenght for necklaces, might be my favorite lenght. I like long lariat length but I love collars. I don’t really have many necklaces and I would like to change that. There is a list of more economical necklaces, because this one comes in at $16k. It is 18k and has a few diamonds although I wish it had more.
  3. Chloé cape. If you check my tiktok you’ll know I’m a bit obsessed with Chloé and have a growing collection (mostly purchased from TRR). I love the style and that they’re a b-corp. I fell in love with this cape when I saw it on the runway and really hope I get it soon (although not sure how that’s going to happen when I’m on a (s)low buy).
  4. Chloé fur coat. This is vintage and I have my eye on a few of them. This full length one, that I’m not entirely sure I could pull off and some shorter ones. When I buy things for my wardrobe, I go through a few mental questions, which I will go through in another post. One of the big recurring questions: is how close am I from becoming a sterotype? I’m toeing a lot of lines with my wardrobe, it is not exactly one thing and that’s how personal style should be.
  5. Magda Butrym crochet lace dress. Absolutely in love with this dress, granted I love Magda Butrym especially after getting my white whale from her line. I have a few other pieces I want from her. I love how structured, feminine, and edgy the pieces are and really grateful to own my favorite dress of all time.
  6. Chloé bag. I’m entirely unsure the style name for this bag, I only remember is was 11k on Bergdorf’s site and I accidently stumbled upon it. It’s so excessive and fun, I love the constrast between leather and metal. I love that it’s a banana, it’s so cute!
  7. Loewe whale bag! This is one of the more affordable pieces on this list. I need it, like truthfully, it’s a sperm whale, it’s realistic, it’s fun and silly, it’s only $1,600. Moby Dick is one of my favorite books which is why this bag is so special to me.

honorable mention that should have been included but I forgot, alemais lantern mini dress. Playful and fun, and similar to the magda butrym dress, I am not entirely sure where I would wear this but I really want to wear it. It is 3100USD including the shipping.

I might make a list of practical items that are much more economical and things I need to buy but haven’t gotten around to it.

fashion

current obsessions

31/01/2024

The past few weeks have been a lot but I’ve also seen some very fun and beautiful wearable objects. That I haven’t stopped thinking about so I just want to share them.

  1. this zimmermann ruffle mini in yellow, this specific color is exclusive to saks. I love this dress because of it’s simplicity and it’s linen. It’s perfect for summer. It’s simplicity makes me feel like I could make this but I also know now having made many objects that look simple that looks are deceiving. And to loosely quote a friend/mentor “making something simple requires a lot of skill”.
  2. alemais samaki mini dress. I’m absolutely obsessed with this dress. I have many pieces from Alemais (which is my favorite brand atm) and I would love to add this to my collection. I’ve been able to luck out as Alemais is a relatively new brand from Australia as such they have yet to develop a similar cult following as they do in their home country. Occasionally you can find their pieces on sale at retailers here in the US but I will say those opportunities are dwindling. I’m excited to see where they go and this might be my favorite collection so far.
  3. Selima opitque bella sunglasses. Is it kitsch to get sunglasses from a film? I’m not sure but I love having a little kitsch as a treat, these sunglasses are no exception. If you’ve seen poor things, you’ve seen these sunglasses, and if you haven’t seen poor things go see it.
  4. ulla johnson kasaia sweater. I love this green. The official brand name is pistachio. I don’t need another green sweater, as I have an unbelievable one from Elexiay which I will share later but I love the simplicity of this one.
  5. alemais samaki crop top. I love this print, it’s the same as the mini dress and the pareo but I am genuinely just in love with it. It’s so fun and cute. I didn’t mention this earlier but one of the big reasons I love alemais is their material choices. The dress and top are organic cotton. They use organic cotton, linen, wool, and other sustainable materials in their pieces. They also plant a tree for every purchase which is cool. Their pieces are also well-made.
  6. alemais samaki pareo. it’s silk and big so it’s versatile. It can be a skirt, dress, or top. The possibilities are endless.
  7. kimeze concept 3 sunglasses. I woke up one day enthralled with sunglasses. I think these are classic pair from a Black owned brand based in London.
  8. clyde leather bucket hat. This is truly my mom’s fault. She saw a leather bucket hat from Chloe and thought it would look good on me. I’m inclined to agree. As much as I love Chloe, I am trying very hard to support smaller brands and designers, as one myself. I love Clyde’s pieces and I think this hat would be a great fall/winter/spring piece.

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